My name is Richard, and at 58, I never imagined that my wife of 30 years would become the subject of rumours spreading through our church in Kisii.
Everything started when she began attending private prayer meetings with our pastor.
She returned home late, avoided my questions, and sometimes switched off her phone.
I became suspicious.
The message I wasn’t supposed to see
One Saturday evening, my wife left her phone charging in our bedroom.
A message appeared from our pastor.
“Please don’t tell your husband about yesterday. We need to meet again.”
My heart started racing.
I confronted her, but she refused to explain.
Desperate, I contacted Dr Bokko after a friend recommended his traditional relationship rituals.
He listened and offered a blessing intended to help uncover hidden truths.
The shocking confession
Three days later, I insisted that we discuss the matter with a marriage counsellor.
My wife finally broke down.
She revealed that she had secretly borrowed KSh 450,000 from a church investment group managed by the pastor.
The money had gone into a poultry business that collapsed.
She had been meeting him privately to negotiate repayment arrangements.
I demanded to see the loan records.
The documents confirmed the debt, although I remained upset about the secrecy.
We consulted a financial adviser and agreed on a repayment plan.
I cannot say Dr Bokko’s ritual influenced her confession, but seeking guidance encouraged me to confront the situation.
Our marriage survived, although rebuilding trust took time.
Today, I understand that secrecy can damage relationships even when infidelity is not involved.
The experience taught me that honest communication matters more than assumptions, especially after decades of marriage.
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